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Return to Book Page. Games People Play by Eric Berne. We think we’re relating to other people.
Actually we’re all playing games. Forty years ago, Games People Play revolutionized our understanding of what really goes on during basic social interactions. More than five million copies later, Dr. We play games all the time: Mass Market Paperbackpages. Published December by Penguin first published January 1st To see what your friends thought of this book, please sign up. To ask other readers questions about Games People Playplease sign up.
What is the name of the book author mentions? The plot is about giving hero second chance to live his life, having all the memmories about previous try. Berne mentions the book in Chapter nine. See 2 questions about Games People Play…. Lists with This Book. Sep 11, Holly rated it liked it. View all 10 comments. In this book, Berne argues that a lot of the behaviour you see around you every day can best be understood as different kinds of “games”. A game is a pattern of behaviour usually involving two or perhaps three people.
There is a series of interactions, followed by an emotional payoff. One of the things I found most interesting is that the classification has two dimensions. First, there’s the game itself.
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Second, there’s the question of how seriously you’re playing: First Degree is just playing for fun. Second Degree means people’s feelings can be badly hurt. Third Degree means that the game ends up “in the courts, the hospital or the morgue. There’s this game he calls RAPO one of the most appealing aspects of the book is the witty labels he’s made up for the different games.
The first person, most often a woman, flirts with the second person, most often a man, until he expresses some concrete sexual interest.
Then she frowns and moves on, leaving him feeling like a bit of a jerk. Her payoff is satisfaction that she’s managed to discomfit him and reassurance that she has sexual power, but it’s basically harmless. Then she gets openly indignant. Maybe she tells him loudly to keep his hands off her, or she phones her friends and says that he’s such a lecherous creep. Second Degree RAPO is a pretty nasty game, because it is of course impossible for third parties to know whether the accusations are true or not.
Maybe the guy is just a lecherous creep. She then calls the police and formally accuses him of rape. It’s clear that it can easily destroy people’s lives.
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I thought it was insightful to point out that all of these are essentially the same thing: I don’t buy his analysis completely. But if he doesn’t succeed in alerting you to a least a couple of games you’re playing without realising it, then I really envy your ability to understand yourself and the things that motivate you.
View all 14 comments. In the first half of the book, Berne introduces transactional analysis as a way of interpreting social interactions. He describes three roles or ego states, known as the Parent, the Adult, and the Child, and postulates that many negative behaviors can be traced to switching or confusio Games People play: He describes three roles or ego states, known as the Parent, the Adult, and the Child, and postulates that many negative behaviors can be traced to switching or confusion of these roles.
He discusses procedures, rituals, and pastimes in social behavior, in light of this method of analysis. For example, a boss who talks to his staff as a controlling ‘parent’ will often engender self-abased obedience, tantrums, or other childlike responses from his employees.
The second half of the book catalogues a series of “mind games” in which people interact through a patterned and predictable series of “transactions” which are superficially plausible that is, they may appear normal to bystanders or even to the people involvedbut which actually conceal motivations, include private significance to the parties involved, and lead to a well-defined predictable outcome, usually counterproductive.
In reality, the “winner” of a mind game is the person that returns to the Adult ego-state first. View all 13 comments.
View all 61 comments. Aug 02, Candace Dempsey rated it did not like it. Games People Play has a good chapter about dealing with alcoholics, but Berne’s ideas and I do mean ideas about women embefi homosexuals are disgusting bedne sexist. This book was published in the s and it shows. Scary to think modern psychologists might actually use it as a text or that college students would have to listen to Berne’s ugly ideas about women and gays. Nowadays we use research, not “ideas. View all 6 comments.
Nov 17, Mandi rated it really liked it Shelves: However, the description of the games themselves was where I found the book lacking. Mostly, this is where I also felt the impact of the book being so dated.
Some of his descriptions of games were based on jatszmam gender behavior of that time, but would not be accurate now, nor would his analysis.
What I wanted was to get the description of the game, see an example provided by an analysis, then see an example of the antithesis with similar analysis. Only once does he provide an example of an antithesis.
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reic Possibly this analysis that was missing for me could be found in other supplemental psychological texts or in a class discussion in which this book was assigned. However, for someone who is reading on their own for only their own personal benefit, it was lacking. Still, this is the historical beginning from which transactional theory arose and, learning about transactional theory for the first time, it was an incredible read.
I found the general concept an interesting metaphor rather than embdri scientifically proven social reality. However, I struggled to finish the book.
It felt like a series of scribbled notes thrown together – a set of index cards with brief information on ‘games’. I needed further explanation and an attempt to engage me rather than having a series of ideas thrown before me. Jun 17, Rebecca rated it liked it Shelves: This was embrri a very embeti thing when it was published in the 70s, and I can see why. Unfortunately, like many psychology theories, it takes what is a clever conceit that explains some odd aspects of human interaction and then tries to apply it to everything regardless embrri whether it fits or not.
Add in some very seventies thought processes which are rather out of favor at the moment but the author probably thought of as universal without rea This was apparently a very big thing when it was published in the 70s, and I can see why. Add in some very seventies thought processes which are rather out of favor at the moment but the author probably thought of as universal without realizing how much was a product of the timeand you end up with a rather dated, if still interesting, book.
In applicable cases, it not only provides some reasonable beerne for behaviors that seem inexplicable on the surface, getting to the root of the game offers a way to actually break the pattern. However, I think most modern psychologists would say that a number of the games identified have more root causes than this text makes out. The attempt to extrapolate the theory to apply to all bedne oversimplifies things. Every problem does not need to be classified as phallic, oral, or anal.
Nov 26, flannery rated it did not like it. I don’t know if this is a reliable textbook for day to day human interaction. Can you solve the riddle of “The Frigid Woman”? This book is mildly amusing but there are too many grievous o I don’t know if this is a reliable textbook for day to day human interaction.
This book is mildly amusing but there are too many grievous omissions. Sexual sport like “Boudoir blame-off” and “24k Butthole”? This book needs a major overhaul. View all 3 comments. Falls into the category of books that give you the secret reason for why things happen the way they do. Mar 18, Meg rated it really liked it. Berne’s list of psychological “games” we all play with each other is fascinating, as is what you learn about yourself by analyzing which games you tend to revisit regularly.
That being said, if you’re on a quest for honest communication, this book is indispensable. My absolute darling of a father has been badgering me to read this book since I was a kid.
But now I see what all the fuss was about. This book is quite the “A-ha, I see your such and such play, and I raise you this seemingly innocuous play”.